4-Step Adaptive Growth System (Course)

I'm so glad you're here! By opening this product, you have an inner look at my new course, aiming to help you take the first brave step toward transforming your life. I know that might feel overwhelming right now, but I want you to know something important: you're not alone, and this is absolutely possible.

My Story - Why I Created This System

Back in 2011, I received a phone call that was the beginning of the end for many parts of my life. Long story short, my ex-husband was accused of sexual assault of a minor, and in February 2013, I found out the truth - the DNA was undeniably his.

Fast forward 4 months, and I had filed for divorce and moved back across the country with my kids to start over from zero. No job. No home. Roughly $100 in the bank. Nothing else but clothes and toys. I had lost everything. 8 months later, he pled guilty and received 10 years of probation. Right after sentencing, he fled the country, becoming an instant fugitive.

Rebuilding my life wasn't easy. I had many moments of doubt, emotional ups and downs, wondering how I'd be able to do it all alone. I couldn't do it all at once, and certainly not without even the most basic plan to work on and adapt as time went along.

I can see you there, nodding your head. You know exactly what I'm talking about. You have moments that you just don't think you can do it. You're tired. Nothing seems to go right. You work your butt off every day and for what? To feel like you're back at square one. You're losing time, energy, and motivation.

But here's the thing: Effort wasn't enough.

The Truth About Starting Over

I couldn't just take the deck of cards I was handed and expect my life to be ok. I was jobless, essentially homeless, and close to broke. My heart was broken. My trust gone. My hope damaged, but not gone. The personal vehicle that I needed for the next part of my life journey was broken. I needed to fix and improve the things that were not right in my life and in myself so that I could reach milestone after milestone in the journey to come.

The good news is, even if you believe your personal vehicle - or what I'll call your "personal system" - is completely broken, beyond repair, or not worthy of getting you from point A to point B, there is always something salvageable. Always something you can build on. Always something you can move forward with, even just a little.

What You'll Learn in This Course

Over the next few modules, I'm going to walk you through the exact 4-Step Adaptive Growth System that took me from rock bottom to building a life I love. (Paid subscribers only)

1. Why your personal system is failing

• Are you driving a race car or a clunker?
• The Myth of “Try Harder”
• The 180-degree breakthrough

2. Reframing your mindset for success

• Redefining Resilience
• Mindset over mechanics
• Behavior change without burnout

3. Digging deep to understand what exactly is holding you back

• What is a personal life system?
• Why your system breaks and how to see it
• Mapping your time and energy drains

4. Setting a prioritization to move you forward

• Classification systems
• Root Cause Analysis
• Impact Measurement + Priority Matrix

5. Rebuilding your new life and protecting it

• The Pause Principle
• Repair vs Replace
• Boundaries and your 90-day Blueprint

6. Keeping you on track for the journey ahead

• Power of Commitment and Smart Tracking
• Obstacle-proofing Your Success
• Celebration and Sustainable Maintenance

A decade later, I've built a career, gotten remarried to the most wonderful man alive, raised my two daughters to adulthood, and now have two step kids that I love as my own. We've built a life we love and continue to build towards the rest of our lives.

And I'll teach you how I did it and give you the steps to not just escape from your situations, but to rebuild better than before.

Your First Assignment

Before we dive deeper in the first lesson, I want you to do something important right now. I want you to adopt a new mindset.

Repeat after me:

• "I will survive. I will rebuild. I will thrive."

Write that down somewhere you can see it or reference it often.

Now repeat after me again:

• "Everything will be ok, one way or another. Breathe."

Write that down in the same place.

Read these two statements to yourself every day, until they become your new mindset. Read them throughout your journey. Read them every time things are not going exactly as you planned or hoped.

Ready to Start Changing Your Life?

(Upgrade to a paid membership to access the full course!)

In the first lesson, we'll explore whether you're trying to win a race with a clunker instead of a race car. We'll uncover the symptoms of a neglected internal system and why effort alone isn't enough.

Are you ready to start changing your life? Let's go!

With hope and determination,

Selena